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We're a middle age couple who can't bear children. We've tried unsuccessfully for many years. We would like to skip the year long (or longer) process though adoption agencies. We would love to help anyone who is thinking of giving up her baby to the state system. As we know, the state system is not the best place for children.  A loving home would be much better for the life of the child.  We know aoption is emotionally draining for the parent, but think of what the adoptive parents can provide.  It's always nice to think you'll be in a better position 3 years later, but too often one finds oneself in the same or worse situation and the cycle starts again for another generation.

We own our own home and we live on the east coast.  We are near locations for various activities; beach, hiking, camping, sporting activities, good schools, etc. We can provide financial assistance as needed to the birth mother. I will be a full-time mother and my husband has been working at a Banking institution for the past 12 years and has a good income.

God Bless

hello. i am new on here. i am in a really bad slump right now. there is no work. barely enough money to buy diapers.husband cant find work.he is applying for ssi due to mentl illness.i have 3 daughters 5,2,and 1 years old.i am suffering serious depression.my kids are due for shots no money to get to the drs.wic wants shots up to date but cant afford to get to the drs.cant get tanf due to no transportion to get to the long hours of class the exspect me to attend even though there is no childcare or anyone to leave my chidren with everyday. i dont know what to do.cell phone is shut off net is due to be turned off any time now.water and electric is both shut off notices.PLEASE IF ANY ONE HAS THE MEANS TO HELP IN ANY WHY WITH MONEY CLOTHES DIAPERS ANYTHING PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE I BEG IF U WANT TO HELP A YOUNG FAMILY IN VERY REAL NEED HELP US OUT.ALSO MY DISABLED AUNT STAYS WITH US,HER MONEY BARELY PAYS FOR RENT AND HER ADULT DAIPERS. PLEASE HELP US OUT. ANY INFO PLEASES

hope to here from you soon.

thank you and god bless you.

~christina

hello. i am new on here. i am in a really bad slump right now.   we have lost our water for about 5 days now..need as much help as possible  ..RIGHT NOW...there is no work. barely enough money to buy diapers.husband cant find work.he is applying for ssi due to mentl illness.i have 3 daughters 5,2,and 1 years old.i am suffering serious depression.my kids are due for shots no money to get to the drs.wic wants shots up to date but cant afford to get to the drs.cant get tanf due to no transportion to get to the long hours of class the exspect me to attend even though there is no childcare or anyone to leave my chidren with everyday. i dont know what to do.cell phone is shut off net is due to be turned off any time now.water and electric is both shut off notices.PLEASE IF ANY ONE HAS THE MEANS TO HELP IN ANY WHY WITH MONEY CLOTHES DIAPERS ANYTHING PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE I BEG IF U WANT TO HELP A YOUNG FAMILY IN VERY REAL NEED HELP US OUT.ALSO MY DISABLED AUNT STAYS WITH US,HER MONEY BARELY PAYS FOR RENT AND HER ADULT DAIPERS. PLEASE HELP US OUT. ANY INFO or donations PLEASES CONTACT ME@ MRSSAYWHAT@YAHOO.COM (if anyone would wish to donate to my family via paypal this is the email adress used on there aswell.)

hope to here from you soon.

thank you and god bless you.

~christina

I am a single mom with two kids. My ex was abusive and I finally got the strength to leave him a year ago while I was pregnant with my second child. I am trying to go to school to get a better job to support my children, I do not get child support and I work three jobs and I barely get to see my kids. My oldest child is disabled so he must have multiple therapists and doctors. I am falling behind on my bills because all the jobs I have are only minimum wage. I am so close to finishing school but can not come up with the money I need this semester. If i do not get the money I get kicked out an put on academic probation. I am really trying to be a good mom. I tried to see if I could get help locally but no one will. I can not get a loan because my ex destroyed my credit. I need 3000 dollars in two week to pay for my classes and then in nine weeks (I am in the accelerated program) I need to pay it again. Three more sets and I will graduate. But as you can see from the price it is very draining. I have a 3.17 and I know if I can finish school I can get just one job and support both of my kids and actually see them more. Please help...  Any help would be appreciated. If you are willing pleasemessage me here and I will give you my paypal. I am willing to offer tutoring in exchange. I have a 3.17 and I think it will be higher once I get my grades from my last classes posted. My strong points are english composition, algebra, and most creative classes.

I am a single mom with two kids. My ex was abusive and I finally got the strength to leave him a year ago while I was pregnant with my second child. I am trying to go to school to get a better job to support my children, I do not get child support and I work three jobs and I barely get to see my kids. My oldest child is disabled so he must have multiple therapists and doctors. I am falling behind on my bills because all the jobs I have are only minimum wage. I am so close to finishing school but can not come up with the money I need this semester. If i do not get the money I get kicked out an put on academic probation. I am really trying to be a good mom. I tried to see if I could get help locally but no one will. I can not get a loan because my ex destroyed my credit. I need 3000 dollars in two week to pay for my classes and then in nine weeks (I am in the accelerated program) I need to pay it again. Three more sets and I will graduate. But as you can see from the price it is very draining. I have a 3.17 and I know if I can finish school I can get just one job and support both of my kids and actually see them more. Please help...  Any help would be appreciated. If you are willing please message me here and I will give you my paypal. I am willing to offer tutoring in exchange. I have a 3.17 and I think it will be higher once I get my grades from my last classes posted.

I am also a good listener. I am non judgmental.  If you need someone to just listen and not offer advice unless asked feel free to message me. I understand that sometimes people need someone safe to vent to. You can vent to me. :)

Young mother of 4 children is in need of steady income....located in Tempe, AZ area. Any ideas appreciated. I still need to pay rent. I do not recieve child support, yet a case is open.

I am a young mother of a 3 yr old and my boyfriend and I are still together. We live in a small studio next to my mother's for easy babysitting. My bf has been in and out of jobs for the past 5 yrs. I am the only one with a stable job but it can't pay a nearly thousand dollar rent along with electric & gas bill and cell phone bills. We are behind on our rent for the past 3 months and my check barely covers the a months rent. Living in 'the city' is hard, finding a job is hard, I can barely go back to school because I have to work and support both baby and bf. I'm not the type to ask for help but these days it's just so hard... All I can think about is my little boy, I know we will always have a fall back place to stay if we ever get kicked out but I owe it to my baby to have a good life. I work as much as I can and have been with my jon for almost 3 yrs, seasons change and due to that hours get cut when it's not busy. Can anyone help? I just need advice on how I should get by for the mean time... especially living in such a busy high priced city of SF.

HELLO WORLD,

CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME OUT.............I AM A YOUNG 19 YEAR OLD SINGLE MOTHER IN THE CHARLOTTE NC AREA AND I HAVE NO CREDIT SO THEREFORE I WOULDNT BE APPROVED FOR ANY LOANS(WELL AT LEAST THE ONES I HAVE TRIED TO GET)...............IM JUST IN A BIND RIGHT NOW AND REALLY NEED TO CLIMB MYSELF OUT OF THE HOLE I DONT WANT TO GO AND APPLY FOR WELFARE BECAUSE MY SITUATION IS NOT ON GOING THING ITS JUST CERTAIN PEOPLE DO BAD THINGS TO SURVIVE AND THIS TIME I WAS THE VICTIM...AND ALSO ITS OTHERS THAT NEED THAT MORE THAN I DO...BUT I WORK A MINIMUM WAGE JOB AND BRAID OUT MY HOUSE.....AND MONEY IS HARD TO COME BY WHEN YOU WORK THE OHOURS I DO AND HOW MY BILLS NOT INCLUDING THE THINGS MY DAUGHTER NEEDS..SO NOW IM STUCK MY RENT, CAR PAYMENT, FUNERAL EXPENSES, HAVE TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE ARE DUE AND I HAVE NO MONEY WHATSOEVER TO DO THIS..................HERE'S MY STORY MY RENT AND CAR PAYMENT IS DUE AROUND THE SAME TIME OF THE MONTH SO I WAS HEADED TO GET MY MONEY ORDERS FOR THEM I WAS ON A REAL DARK ROAD AND IT WAS A STOP SIGN WHEN I STOPPED I WAS ROBBED AT GUNPOINT AND THEY TOOKED ALL I HAD MYR ENT AND CAR PAYMENT, GROCERY MONEY AND THE LITTLE I HAD FOR CONTRIBUTING TO THE FUNERAL AND EVEN MAXED OUT MY BANK ACCOUNT LEAVING A BALANCE OF -$25.OO IT WAS EITHER GIVE THEM THE CODE TO MY DEBIT CARD OR DIE..................I WAS WONDERING IF THERE ANYBODY TO GIVE ME A LOAN FOR ABOUT 3000 AND I CAN PAY THEM BACK WITHIN 3 MONTHS TIME IM IN DESPAERATE NEEDS AND THIS IS MY LAST HOPE EVERYTHING ELSE IVE TRIED TO DO HAS FAILED I DONT WANT ME AND MY CHILD WONDERING WHERE WE GONE LAY OUR HEAD AT NIGHT..............IF I DONT GET THE CAR PAYMENT WE WOULD BE STUCK WALKING AND I JUST CANT SEE THAT SO IF YOU CAN HELP EVERY LITTLE COUNTS IM NOT ON HERE TRYING TO SCAM ANYONE OR LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO SCAM ME SO IF YOU CAN PLEASE HELP IT REALLY WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED AND AS FOR THE LOAN GOES I WOULD BE HAPPY TO SIGN AN AGREEMENT SAYING I WILL PAY BACK 

 PLEASE HELP

THANKS, QUESHA

Hi im Linda i am 23 yrs old a first time mother to a special little boy who is 5 months old.. he was diagnost with Down Syndrome. Never in a million years would i ever had thought wow me a first time mom who has a child with down syndrome.. I moved from florida to missouri because the Childrens hospital in st. louis has an amazing down syndrome clinic and an all around amazing hospital. But i just lost my job 2 days ago because of my absence's because i run up to st. louis all the time 4 my son.. I dont think its right but i cant do anything about it now.. me n my fiance juts moved into a new house and i was bring home teh most money and now i dont kno how im going to do it.. With no money and a son who needs more than everything and i just dont know how im going ot do anything anymore... :(

wow i was about to write then started reading how selfish people are well i have a daughter and just took custody of my two nieces 2 month old and 2 yrs i am 20 years old and i cant afford daycare to work because i will be working to pay for daycare i graduated high school and went to school to be an administrative assistant i was on maternity leave and as soon as i was going to go back i got a call to plz take custody of these two beutifull girls and couldnt turn them down knowin how texas and foster care is right now (overwhelming) so i took them in and my baby's father started gettin real sick with his kidneys and has been missing alot of work so we havent payed the house note 531.00 wich is due every 1st of the month so since i havent paid last months julys and now its the first i am behind two months i pray too god everythings gonna be ok but its hard well even if no one help me out at all on here feels good just relaxin writting to relieve a lil stress with all three girls asleep taking a nap thx and god bless have a great day

im a 20 yr old mother of two and i currently live with my partner and father of my children in a tiny little flat. However we have to move out of the flat this week as the horrendous damp and mould is making my baby girl ill and causing her to have breathing difficulties. The problem is the council wont give us a house as there are just none available and we can't afford to rent any properties in our area.We can't get a mortgage either as despite my partner working incredibly hard as a decorator (despite nearly dying last year and still suffering awful pain at times). We are going to have to move in with my parents and brother and sister in their little flat until we find somewhere but there just isnt room.

We desperatley need money to buy a house, just a small house, something we can call home. I know its a hugely big ask and to be honest i don't think anyone will be willing to help us but i just think there is no harm in asking. My partner works incredibly hard for very little money and it seems like some people get money for nothing.It just seems so unfair. All i want is the best for my children. If anybody can help PLEASE PLEASE do we will be eternally grateful, even just a little bit of money could help us on our way to buying a house or pay for a few months rent. Thankyou very much for reading this, all my love x